MY WEDDING..

My first blog would be an announce about my wedding, my name is Roy Harris Simatupang, I work in Batam now, I would like to spread my joy and sending my invitation to all people that would like to come to my wedding ceremony that will be held at my hometown Laguboty 29th dec 2007 at 10:00 am. it would be an honor and be a great blessing to us to welcome you as our guest, and there will be a batak’s tribe ceremonial wedding party like manortor all day long so prepare for your physical fitness cause there will many gondang’s request and be not hesitate to come forward and join the other doing tortor dance, there would be a circular tortor that would circulate our family doing things such tortor and give blessing to our marriage such as my tulang’s family a.k.a hula hula that we know as the most honourable guest at this ceremony. My oppung would come too as the hula hula side and give blessing to the bride, my oppung now live in silaen and at the age of 73th age i guess they still have a healthy shape,do things like go to hauma and marbabo still in the daily joblist of my oppung at our home town, i admire my oppung as a great leader in my family and now he has tens of his grandchildren doesn’t make him less charming.

Ok back to my wedding then, I would like to share stories about my fiancee, her name is maria oktarianti a javanese girl that i met in bandung during my college and i made my decision to take her as my girlfriend at 7.7.2003 the same date i take her as my fiance at 2007 at lampung her hometown, but under circumstances of the wedding there’s a old rules that state that it would be nice a non batak bride candidate make a simple ceremonial and make them as new batak member and will occupy a new marga that usually by tulang or amangboru marga, such as my fiance now she has new name after my tulang and take her as her new daughter an name her as Hanna Panjaitan, this ceremonial doesn’t mean to separate her to her own original family instead of to simplify the the adat in batak during the wedding party, because it would be weird to held a batak wedding party if a man or woman bride is non batak tribe coz things such a dalihan natolu connection is vanish I think so, because there is no such a adat that held batak to a non batak bride, usually this wedding would be national wedding party i guess. Ok that’s it for now, hope you care to join our wedding, thanks.

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